Can You Choose to Have a C-Section? Understanding Elective Cesareans [63]
Description
Jen and Bethany discuss elective C-sections, also known as cesarean delivery on maternal request (CDMR)—exploring why some women choose a planned C-section without a medical indication, what the research says, and how obstetricians view these requests in real clinical practice.
Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, Jen and Bethany cover:
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Why some women prefer a planned C-section
Fear of labor pain, a history of birth trauma, the desire for predictability and control, anxiety around fetal distress, prior difficult labors, and more. -
The current stance of U.S. obstetricians
How OBs think about CDMR, why most are cautious, and what guidelines suggest about timing, safety, and patient counseling. -
The importance of autonomy + informed consent
Why non-judgmental, thorough, two-way discussions matter when patients request a C-section—and how clinicians can support decision-making without pressure or shame. -
How common (or uncommon) maternal request C-sections actually are
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Risks, benefits, and considerations for multiple C-sections
Including placenta accreta spectrum, recovery differences, and long-term planning for future pregnancies.
Who This Episode Is For
Anyone who's:
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considering a planned C-section
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processing previous birth trauma
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curious about their options
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preparing to talk with their OB
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wanting evidence-based clarity without the judgment
Key Takeaway
Choosing a C-section—whether for medical reasons or personal reasons—is deeply individual. Women deserve respectful, informed, and compassionate conversations about their choices. This episode helps you understand the landscape so you can approach your decision with confidence.
Birth Services + postpartum support: lemontreebabies.com.
This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The content in this podcast should not be considered medical advice.



